There are so many ways to be taken on an endless rollercoaster ride in divorce — and then there is an Intuitive Divorce which disrupts that old narrative.

Contrary to the conventional narrative, divorce is filled with opportunity to heal yourself, your relationship with your kids and transform your life. That’s worth celebrating.

Even when we feel devastated, distraught and like life is in shambles — remember that the story isn’t fully written. We may be bent but not broken.

Divorce tosses tough stuff your way but what if there is a better path through it — and what if it doesn’t have to be hard?

Ironically, we think we can just shove our needs and feelings aside and that makes it ‘easier’ and yet — it’s exactly the opposite.

Boundaries definitely get a bad rap. They scare most of us and yet, they are actually full of possibility and love (yes, love).

Stuckness comes in many flavors — an unhealthy marriage, limited thinking, indecision, fear and overwhelm — but it also shows us what we are ready to get ‘unstuck’ from.

Life is full of stressors and divorce ramps it up about 10 notches, but stress can be metabolized. We can learn to use it rather than be used by it.  

Most women have no idea how long divorce will take, how much it will cost, and how painful the process will be; the key is to take control of the process.

Divorce and regrets often go hand-in-hand, but they don’t have to. That’s an old narrative that can be flipped on its side.

Yes, divorce is disruptive and hard, but summer reminds us that it’s still OK to be alive, playful and enjoy the ride as you go.

There is much we don’t control in divorce but the quickest way to take control of your life is to take control of your thoughts.